So with the Michael Phelps suspension for the photo of his apparent marijuana
smoking has sparked comments from the public and the US Olympic Committee about
his responsibility as a role model.
When did it become mandatory to be a role model if you're an athlete?
Shoot, these days we expect criminal behavior from many athletes, not the
status of role model.
In the old days when athletes worked hard, strove to be best and represented
American Pride, perhaps they were role models. However, even then - no one said
they had to be.
I remember seeing Charles Barkley on the Arsenio Hall Show (does that date
me?) and I was so impressed with his stating that he is not a role model, and
that he rejected that term applied to him. I think that was a very intelligent
insight on his part (or a cop out, I don't know).
Who died and made celebrities role models?
I think your role models should be your parents and family, your teachers and
other heroes of the world. Being a great athlete, actor or being beautiful
doesn't make you a role model.
I think most on that side of the fence would agree. Everyone would just like
to be human, I think.
Being Online CAN Bring Us Closer
Thursday, February 05 2009
A New Jersey Man is credited with saving the life of an online friend in
California after letting the police know that the teen was attempting to commit
suicide.
Jesse Coltrane, 22, called the Sacramento police after his 18 year old friend
cut his forearm with a razor.
Coltrane only knew his friend's first name and his phone number, but it was
enough to track him down and take him to a county medical center.
In this world of anonymity, distance and internet 'wall building', it's nice
to know that someone does care and does reach out and remember that behind these
computer screens there are real people.
This is the kind of story we should all hear on the news these days!
Eight is Enough: Part 2
Tuesday, February 03 2009
Alright, now for an update on the California woman who recently had eight
babies.
Seems she did NOT have eight embryos implanted, that evidently some of them
split - which means she probably had four implanted (still more than usual).
In addition, I've read the following:
She is a single mother living with her parents and her existing six
children
The man who was the sperm donor for her children had asked her to stop
using his sperm for more children
One of her children has autism
She would like to have a television show about child care, since she
believes she is qualified
So, there we are. I think the woman needs counseling, not her own television
show. To already have six children - one of them with special needs - and want
more? There is some sort of obsession there. She wants her own television show,
because she says she wants to provide the best financial future for her
children. Well... being a single mom with six children living with your parents
isn't a good beginning.
What do you think? Am I crazy here? Is this just a bit over the edge?
Maybe someone could send her parents a free vacation too.
Eight is Enough? It's Too Much.
Tuesday, February 03 2009
You've all heard about the woman in California who recently had 8, count 'em
EIGHT, babies recently? Now fertility experts are coming forward to say they are
dismayed at the results. I agree. I understand that some couples need fertility
assistance, but this is just irresponsible.
Doctors are saying that "there's a high likelihood they're going to have
(long-term) medical and psychological handicaps." Not to mention the
enormous cost of raising 8 children (in addition to the six they've already
got). They will not be able to do it without financial assistance, I'm sure.
So when does it become irresponsible to let someone have so many children?
It's a delicate debate, to be sure. I would think that there is a point when
someone can reduce the number of embryos or something.
I think it may be time to reconsider fertility treatments all together. For
those who would not believe that selectively removing some embryos should also
be the ones who do not believe in assisted fertility treatment in the first
place, right?
Evidently, there are restrictions in place to prevent something like this.
The transfer of embryos is usually limited to one or two, so experts believe
that whoever transferred the eight embryos to this patient was not a legitimate
clinician. Experts say that the implanting of eight embryos is just
"absurd".
I don't know about all of this, I'm definitely not an expert on the subject.
It just seems to me that a very large mistake was made here, not a blessing -
and ultimately the ones who may suffer are going to be all of these children -
the eight plus the existing six.